Bring Back the Brotherhood

Coaching Program & Community for Guys

Being a Guy Today Can Be Hard...

  • Too many guys are feeling lost, isolated, and overwhelmed. They're buried in social media, gaming, and vaping—not because they’re lazy, but because the world feels chaotic and unclear. With endless options and constant noise, they don’t know what they want… or who they’re supposed to be.

  • They’re struggling with unhealthy habits, unsure who to trust, and afraid to open up out of fear they’ll be judged. Deep down, they want to lead, to build something, to protect and provide—not just for others, but for themselves. And when they feel like they can’t… it shows up as frustration, anger, or disconnection.

  • We bring young men together to talk honestly, build discipline, and support each other. It’s not therapy—it’s brotherhood. It’s about accountability, purpose, and belonging.

What Moms Are Saying

"My son has his swagger back"

"I can see confidence, I can see organization and discipline, all the good things that will make him successful long term." - Barbara Meeks

"He is asking for more family time"

"He has really grown and expanded; he is less moody, more communicative and he is laughing more." - Maryann McQuillan

"Best decision I ever made"

"Everything they do for these young men really help bring them out of their shell." - Jordan Hars

"Trust me, you will not be sorry"

"These young men transform in the process; give it a shot he won't let you down." - Kim Johnson

"I could see the growth"

"The consistent follow up and guided self-reflections were so well planned. I could see the growth and improvement in my sons' self-confidence with each session."

- Kim Brickey, Rochester NY

What Guys Are Saying

"The best decision I've made as a young man"

"I didn't have a method of achieving those goals and DJ helped formulate a plan and push me. " - Jack Miller

"Develop my own moral compass"

"I don't think there's a better forum then these groups for men to sit down and talk and be open." - Derek Milgate

"More confidence in my abilities"

"Being a part of a group of people like that, it's just given me a lot more confidence in my abilities. " - Nelson Burke

"This has had a dramatic impact on my life"

"I feel when we get together, we empower eachother and we can be our genuine selves" - Ferdy Gonzalez

"Leaps and bounds..."

"It feels really good to commit to something. Looking back on it I was like the worst version of myself I've ever been in my life. And then we started doing this and it's felt like there has been leaps and bounds, my anxiety has gone down and I don't get stressed about stuff like I used to."

- Ian Meeks

"I can clearly see the progress"

"This program has helped me in multiple facets of my life—sometimes in ways I don’t even notice at first. After nearly two years of coaching, I can clearly see the progress I’ve made. I leave every session more motivated, with clarity, and ready to take action toward my goals."

- Justin Colucci

"I look forward to each session"

"In the beginning I didn't want to do this, yet now I look forward to each session."

- Dan Dechnik

"I have purpose now"

"I feel like I have purpose now because I have projects and goals to work on and that feels good."

- Jeff Hars

How It Works

We work with guys in three different ways

tier 1

CLUB PACKAGE

  • Guys join a powerful peer community. Weekly group sessions with guys his age to discuss topics like confidence, discipline and building better habits. We build trust in these groups.

tier 2

GROUP PACKAGE

  • The best of both worlds; guys build relationships in the group sessions and receive personalized 1:1 coaching to work on their future, organizing their schedule and habits.

tier 3

1:1 PACKAGE

  • Private mentorship with limited availability - exclusive 1:1 session's for high-level coaching and direct guidance. Best for guys who want to make fast changes.

MEET THE creator of be that guy

Hey, I'm DJ Logory!

In my late teens and early twenties, I felt lost. I didn’t know who I was or where I was headed. I was stuck in my own head, drifting without direction.

Then in the summer of 2017, I ran into my childhood basketball coach at the gym. He asked how I was doing—and for the first time in a long time, I answered honestly - “I’m not doing well. I need help.”


We talked for three hours. He didn’t try to fix me—he just listened. And in that conversation, something shifted. I felt seen. I felt like myself again.

We kept meeting for the next three years. Those talks changed my life, and eventually, into the blueprint for this program. Together, we built a space for young men to talk, grow, and hold each other accountable—just like we did.

This program has evolved into a full community of guys who support one another, want to improve, and are willing to put in the work.

To the families and guys who are involved with BTG, thank you for allowing me to be a part of your lives.

Ready to help your son?

Schedule Your 15-Min Discovery Call

On this call I want to learn more about what's going on with your son and what you would like to see happen over the next 30-90 days.

Any Questions?

Call or text us at

(585) 737-8039

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